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Wedding First Dance Choreography to Can’t Take My Eyes Off Of You by Frankie Valli

Wedding First Dance Choreography to Can’t Take My Eyes Off Of You by Frankie Valli

Are you considering dancing to “Can’t Take My Eyes Off Of You” by Frankie Valli for your wedding first dance? It’s a great choice for a first dance because it’s romantic, fun and exciting and the choreography possibilities are nearly endless!

I’ve worked with a lot of couples from beginners to more advanced students, and for two lessons to eight, to create first dance choreography to this 1960s classic love song. Check out the video of my students, Shelley and Robert, dancing to this song.

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Five Non-Traditional First Dance Songs to Get The Party Started

Five Non-Traditional First Dance Songs to Get The Party Started

Some couples cringe at the thought of slow dancing to a sentimental love song for their first dance. If that’s you, take heart! I have worked with lots of couples who have chosen less traditional songs to dance to at their wedding. Whether it’s a song that you both love dancing and singing to in the car, or a song that gives off unmistakable party vibes, these non-traditional songs are fun and easy to dance to and a great way to kick off the reception.

Can't Get Enough Of Your Love, Babe!

Can't Get Enough Of Your Love, Babe!

Happy Anniversary to my reluctant dance partner, Jordan. Check out a fun video of us dancing to Barry White’s “Can’t Get Enough Of Your Love, Babe” after the jump.

First Dance Song Review: Can’t Take My Eyes Off Of You by Frankie Valli

First Dance Song Review: Can’t Take My Eyes Off Of You by Frankie Valli

When you hear the lyrics, “you’re just too good to be true...can’t take my eyes off of you...,” who else immediately thinks of the scene from “Ten Things I Hate About You” where Heath Ledger serenades Julia Stiles over the PA system during soccer practice? 🙋‍♀️

It would be impossible to come up with ten things to hate about this first dance song! Keep reading for my recommendation as well as photographic inspiration for those of you considering this song for your first dance.

Five Reasons to Learn a Choreographed First Dance for Your Wedding

Five Reasons to Learn a Choreographed First Dance for Your Wedding

Have you been dreaming of a first dance where you and your partner float gracefully around the dance floor Disney princess style? Or maybe you want to get the party started with an energetic and less traditional song choice (I’m looking at you, St. Paul and the Broken Bones!) Either way, a choreographed dance is a great way to kick off the reception and create memories to last a lifetime.

Choreography doesn’t have to be elaborate or scary, I promise! Follow the link to check out my top five reasons to learn a choreographed first dance.

How To: An Easy Wedding Dance Lift Anyone Can Do

How To: An Easy Wedding Dance Lift Anyone Can Do

Some wedding dance lifts are super simple to pull off and are a great way to end your first dance or highlight a particularly beautiful moment in your first dance song. They also look amazing in wedding photography! Keep reading to learn how to incorporate an easy, yet beautiful wedding lift into your first dance.

First Dance Song Review: Mean to Me by Brett Eldredge

First Dance Song Review: Mean to Me by Brett Eldredge

Take a listen to Mean to Me by Brett Eldredge and check out my pros, cons and recommendation after the jump. And if you are hoping to dance to this song for your wedding and don’t live nearby, check out my online course for beginners. The steps you learn through the course go perfectly with this song!

First Dance Charlotte to Launch Its First Online Wedding Dance Course!

First Dance Charlotte to Launch Its First Online Wedding Dance Course!

Whether you live in Charlotte, NC or on the other side of the world, First Dance Charlotte is launching its first online wedding dance course in the summer of 2019 designed specifically for couples who have very limited time and no experience dancing together. Learn how to create a simple, relaxed and romantic first dance even if you are an absolute beginner. This course uses the same methodology and clear instructions that Alex uses in her private, in-person lessons that have resulted in hundreds of satisfied students and five-star reviews.

First Dance Charlotte Receives The Knot Best of Weddings Hall of Fame Award

First Dance Charlotte Receives The Knot Best of Weddings Hall of Fame Award

It’s always exciting to win an award, especially when it has “Hall of Fame” in the title. I always knew I would make it big one day. ;-) Thanks again to all the lovely couples who reviewed me and thus nominated me for this award. I couldn’t have done it without you!

Most Popular First Dance Songs of 2017

Most Popular First Dance Songs of 2017

Here are the most popular first dance songs of 2017 (plus all of the songs that my students chose to dance to this year.) If you are searching for a first dance song, you've come to the right place.

Wedding Reception Shoe Ideas for Dancing

Wedding Reception Shoe Ideas for Dancing

Anyone who has taken lessons from me knows that I am always wearing sneakers when I teach. What has me excited today is my discovery of an adorable new Keds collaboration with design darlings, Rifle Paper Co. I have long been a fan of Rifle Paper Co. for their beautiful prints and Keds for their comfy, flexible and easy-to-dance-in sneaks.

Three Things I Learned About Marriage During Preparation for My First Dance

Three Things I Learned About Marriage During Preparation for My First Dance

Once we really got started with our first dance, I realized a lot of things about our relationship - what areas we need to work on, where we are completely in sync, when to let things go, and when to change course when things aren't working the way we wanted them to. Dancing together gives you insight into your relationship and can reveal a lot of things about you as a couple and as an individual. Here are three things, among many, that I learned while dancing with my husband. 

Matching Your First Dance to Your Wedding Style

Matching Your First Dance to Your Wedding Style

My article, Mastering the first dance, on how to match your first dance to your wedding style, was recently published on Charlotte Wedding magazine's Bride+Groom blog! Check it out by following the link below.

FAQ: What Should I Expect During Wedding Dance Lessons?

FAQ: What Should I Expect During Wedding Dance Lessons?

Now that spring wedding season is gearing up, many new students will be visiting my home studio for their first wedding dance lesson. Many students ask what they should wear and if they need to bring anything specific to their wedding dance lessons. Besides payment (I accept payment on the day of the first lesson), there is little else you need to bring besides an open mind and a positive attitude. 

These Shoes Are Made for Dancin'...

These Shoes Are Made for Dancin'...

If you want to dance all night at your reception, choose wisely. You don't want blisters and sore feet for the first day of your honeymoon! Here are a few tips for choosing beautiful and comfortable shoes for your wedding day that are also great for dancing.

First Dance Charlotte Featured on Style Me Pretty

First Dance Charlotte Featured on Style Me Pretty

Very excited to be featured in Emily and Michael's Classic + Elegant North Carolina Country Club Wedding on Style Me Pretty. Captured by the extremely talented Allison Kuhn, Emily and Michael looked breathtaking in their portraits and on the dance floor. Here are a few images of their first dance to Percy Sledge's "When a Man Loves a Woman."

Valentine's Day Gift Idea: Wedding Dance Lessons for Your Love

Valentine's Day Gift Idea: Wedding Dance Lessons for Your Love

Remember the very first time you ever slow danced with someone you had a crush on? My first experience slow dancing was at a "Trophy Dance" - an end-of-the-summer celebration and award ceremony put on by the pool and tennis club my family went to while I was growing up. I remember running away and hiding in the girls' bathroom after I danced with the boy I liked to "I Swear" by All for One. Although we were both only seven years old, it still felt like a monumental moment in my life.

First Dance Charlotte Wins The Knot Best of Weddings for 2016

First Dance Charlotte Wins The Knot Best of Weddings for 2016

I am very excited to announce that First Dance Charlotte has been awarded the The Knot Best of Weddings 2016! Thank you to all my fabulous students who made this happen. Here's to another wonderful year of dancing, laughter and love!

29 First Dance Songs from Real 2015 Weddings

29 First Dance Songs from Real 2015 Weddings

Does the giant 200+ "greatest first dance songs" playlist that you stumbled across on the internet leave you feeling overwhelmed and confused? While many first dance song lists mean well, they often forget to consider the most important aspect of the first dance song - whether or not you can actually dance to it!

The following list encompasses 29 songs that real 2015 couples and students of First Dance Charlotte danced to on their wedding day. The list runs the gamut from Motown to R&B, Top 40 Hits to Country, well-known to unknown, and everything in between.